User blog comment:Maltalidenta Kwuitidherali/Making my Excuses/@comment-25330335-20160110003632/@comment-4750818-20160110180324

I understand that you wanted to contact Faenor, Heart, not launch an attack on RedExtremeXD.

What you may or may not know is that a lot of people follow one another's message walls. For example, if you post anything my message wall, all the wiki's admins get a notification saying "Heartgold1234 left a new message on Glflegolas's wall". This all sounds fine and good -- why wait for one admin to respond, when another can answer your question first? The problem with this becomes if confidentiality is required. What I think happened is that RedExtremeXD, as a staff member of Tales of Ages, is following Faenor's message wall. That means he'll know about anything that's posted on there.

The best way to contact server owners is to send them an e-mail, if you know their e-mail address. If they don't, then I think we should work something out, as there really should be a way to contact somebody without everyone on the wiki knowing about it.

Glflegolas (admin) Send a Messenger  18:03, January 10, 2016 (UTC)